Ending Aggressive Behavior
Children need to express their feeling such as
Happiness and sadness. This is very
Important to their development. They used different method to express themselves
Feelings, crying is a one method. Destroying toys, Ripping books &
Magazines are very important to develop their anger management. Kids doesn't
Know how to handle a book even though they like to see the pictures. Destroying
Items are normal process & that's how they discover the world. Aggression
Is different than these activities of showing their feelings. According to my
Point of view If anyone aggressive means no flexibility and hurting others and
Their feelings. Why children been aggressive? Some kids are passive aggressive
Who is pretending they did not hear us. Also there are many reasons why children
are aggressive. Specially their environment, Is it unsafe, Aggressive ?There is
disorders cause of aggressive behaviors such as attention deficit disorder or lead poisoning . As a primary
caregiver parent has a major responsibility to give support their children to
be a good member of the society. As a caregiver I also have a huge
responsibility to help the child and the family to correct these kind of
behavior. Aggressive behavior can harm to the child, family, others and overall
to the society. The child must reflect the underlying condition. In some cases, aggressive behavior is
caused by a traumatic event in the child's life, such as abuse or losing a
loved one. To treat the child caregiver need to identify correct causes to
their aggressiveness. Positive parent involvement and caregiver positive and
never give up attitude can help the child to come to normal behavior. Most of
the school and daycare do not like to allow these kids since they will lose business
after these kids hurts anyone else. But I am thinking who else will support them . School or a Caregiving place is the place, teaching and supporting children
and make them a useful individuals. I think none of the kids are perfectly well
behave since they all in a process of behavior. Therefore teachers need to
support them with a good attitude. Find the cause to treat the situation.
Aggressive behavior can only treat with love and patience. Aggression is never
ending with an aggression. As a teacher, first I admit the truth of "this
child is aggressive and I have to give him special attention". I start
monitor him to find his environment. If there is anything beyond my controls
such as therapy or medical treatment I address it to the parent. I am trying to
become someone special in their life, that way he opens his mouth to tell me
the background. Every child is a creation of adults and the environment around
him. Therefore giving a positive environment rather than drop the child from
the program we do our part of them. Instead of being stereotyped we can involve
parents to resolve these problems and
educate them. I suggest being
their friend and explaining the situation positively. I do not like
sending them to authorities right away. This cause to build boundaries in
between the child and the teacher. Forgiving and caring is the first step and I
also do not want to happen it again.
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