Friday, February 15, 2013



                             Ending Aggressive Behavior

Children need to express their feeling such as Happiness and sadness.  This is very Important to their development. They used different method to express themselves Feelings, crying is a one method. Destroying toys, Ripping books & Magazines are very important to develop their anger management. Kids doesn't Know how to handle a book even though they like to see the pictures. Destroying Items are normal process & that's how they discover the world. Aggression Is different than these activities of showing their feelings. According to my Point of view If anyone aggressive means no flexibility and hurting others and Their feelings. Why children been aggressive? Some kids are passive aggressive Who is pretending they did not hear us. Also there are many reasons why children are aggressive. Specially their environment, Is it unsafe, Aggressive ?There is disorders cause of aggressive behaviors such as attention deficit disorder or lead poisoning . As a primary caregiver parent has a major responsibility to give support their children to be a good member of the society. As a caregiver I also have a huge responsibility to help the child and the family to correct these kind of behavior. Aggressive behavior can harm to the child, family, others and overall to the society. The child must reflect the underlying condition. In some cases, aggressive behavior is caused by a traumatic event in the child's life, such as abuse or losing a loved one. To treat the child caregiver need to identify correct causes to their aggressiveness. Positive parent involvement and caregiver positive and never give up attitude can help the child to come to normal behavior. Most of the school and daycare do not like to allow these kids since they will lose business after these kids hurts anyone else. But I am thinking who else will support them . School or a Caregiving place is the place, teaching and supporting children and make them a useful individuals. I think none of the kids are perfectly well behave since they all in a process of behavior. Therefore teachers need to support them with a good attitude. Find the cause to treat the situation. Aggressive behavior can only treat with love and patience. Aggression is never ending with an aggression. As a teacher, first I admit the truth of "this child is aggressive and I have to give him special attention". I start monitor him to find his environment. If there is anything beyond my controls such as therapy or medical treatment I address it to the parent. I am trying to become someone special in their life, that way he opens his mouth to tell me the background. Every child is a creation of adults and the environment around him. Therefore giving a positive environment rather than drop the child from the program we do our part of them. Instead of being stereotyped we can involve parents to resolve these problems and  educate them. I suggest  being  their friend and explaining the situation positively. I do not like sending them to authorities right away. This cause to build boundaries in between the child and the teacher. Forgiving and caring is the first step and I also do not want to happen it again.

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